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Gender Neutral Names

For the next writing project (because a contract-bound author never rests :-) ), I need a character name that can be either male or female, for most American readers.  Ideally, the name will be as gender neutral as "Chris" or "Pat" - where each of us (or at least, I, sitting alone at my computer) can rapidly think of equal numbers of men and women with the name.  Unlike "Chris" or "Pat", though, I'm hoping for a full name (not a nick-name.)  Something that feels exotic, even middle-eastern, would be even better.

Names that I've considered and discarded are Hil(l)ary (almost always female in the States), Trac(e)y (ditto), and Morgan (tritto.)

Your suggestions, smart people?

Mindy, pondering...

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Robin
Kim
Sydney/Sidney
Jordan

Here's a list, though most of them seems a little weird to my British ears:
http://www.yeahbaby.com/popular-baby-names/article.php?page=144

Chris is a nickname? Why didn't anyone tell me?!?!

Regards,
Chris.

:)
Riley/Ryley
Corey/Kory/Korey/Cory
Codie/Kody/Kodie/Cody
Jamie/Jaime/Jayme
Jess/Jesse/Jessie
Jodie/Jody/Jodi
Peta/Peter (nah, that one's a spelling thing!)
Lindsay/Lindsey/Linsey
Charlie
Bailey

I went through my class rolls - kids names these days... :)
Dana
Lesley
Michael can also be a woman's name, in some cultures.
Ooh, forgot Brynn/Bryn (one of my favourite Welsh names)

Sasha apparently is male or female too (Russian?)
Cielo; at the school I work at, there's a girl and a boy named Cielo.

Daryl is my choice

Brooklyn
Paris
Dakota
(places often go both ways)
Sam
Jesse/Jessie
Lee
Dominique (more female here though I have seen it used for both.)

Sorry I can't do middle-eastern, don't know enough names from there. There are a lot of diminutives that work, but not so many full names. For example you could also use Sandy, Ricky (Ricki), Danny (Dani) though I think differential spellings are something you would want to avoid.

Sorta location-specific, but Francis, Merle, Michel, Aubry -- all can be either male or female 'round here.
Sasha

Alex

Corin

Evelyn (I've always loved that name)
How about Evelyn, as in Evelyn Waugh?

The only kind of Middle Eastern I really know is Hebrew, but there are several names that seem to be used for both genders -- Ariel(le), Barak, Amit, Liron, Shai, Zohar, Tal, Raz, Gal.
Carol (the guy who does big bird's name is Carol, and I once knew a BIG man who's name was Carol)

Kelly (Yes, it can be a man's first name, especially if from a very Irish family)

Lorne/Lauren - if you say it fast they sound alike

More modern names might be Taylor or Tyler, Ashton (like Kutcher, but I know a girl named Ashton), or Sam.

Montana. Not kidding, I had a boy in my class named Montana last week. Same for Dakota.

That's all I can think of off the top of my head.
And if all else fails, try this: Medieval Naming Guides: Arabic and Islamic
There's my name, Casey. It's not very exotic, but I've known boys and other girls with the name.
Well, "Devon" of course -- that's why I chose it!

Others: Alex, Andy, Sam, Leslie (old-fashioned now, but used to be quite popular for men).

Also, there are last names that are sometimes used as first names for both men and women. Trying to think of them . . .

I've heard Fairleigh used for both men and women.

Addison, Kedall, Cameron, Skylar, Jamie, Carson, Quinn, Dakota, Drew, Emerson, Kennedy, Hunter, Jordan, Logan, Madison, Parker.

Does that help?
Parker, Tam, Andy, Jayne, Cayce, Rowan - none have a middle eastern feel to them, though.
reece waves hello.
Not Middle Eastern, but Kelly would work.
Cameron was already suggested, but it's a good androgynous name. And hey, it's my first name, which automatically puts it up in the top ten of all-time cool names.
Ali
Ami
Amrit
Cain
Diya
Ira
Jaya...

I just went to http://www.babynamesworld.com/advanced-search.html and chose SHOW: Only Unisex Names and just hit the search button. Lots to choose from. Those are some of the Indian/Arabic/Hebrew names that looked good.
Worth noting, some languages/cultures won't _let_ you be ambiguous. Things have gender, period. You can give someone a name of the wrong gender, but even then, sentence structure and things like articles will find you out. One of the Lord Peter short stories hung on that feature of French, for example.
Val - short for either Valentine or Valerie?

Micky - though the spelling tends to change for the male/female versions.

In the UK "Leslie" is male, "Lesley" is female, but I do know that in the US the difference isn't usually noted.

"Sean" is a male name here, but I do know of US girls called "Sean". Jamie is always male in Scotland.
Well, Robin is another possibility. In the States it tends to be female but in Britain it's still largely male. I met a Robina on my London trip.

Also, my kids both have friends named Jo-el (pronounced as two syllables Joe El, not one-syllable Jole), and one is male and the other female.

If you need a name that sounds (i.e., when spoken) like it could be either, I've noticed that I can't tell the difference between Erin (girl's name) and Aaron (boy's name) unless I see it in writing.
Marion. Shannon.

But neither are exotic...
Ashley qualifies on gender ambiguity but not on Middle Easter soundalike. if you really want the Middle Eastern angle, someone upthread suggested Ali - which would work beautifully in the context...
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